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How To Talk To Any Woman, Always Effectively.
When we discuss the subjects of approaching women, or how to approach women, we invariably come up with the skill of conversation being important to the skill of how to approach women effectively.
I've always been complimented at my ability to initiate conversation with anybody at any time about anything - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a skill I have and in this piece of writing I will tell you the SIMPLE secret to my success.
The best way to spark a conversation is to ask questions. Too simple? Well, let me show.
What do you ask questions about?
Well, I always just ask questions about whatever I want to know. It varies from person to person. But typically if I am meeting someone new I would ask questions such as "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you get along with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of friends?"
Usually a person chats for a while when answering and that lends you more data to ask more questions about. Often I will make a comment if it is appropriate or if they ask me a question in reply to my question I just answer their question then ask them a different one of my questions.
The hard times are when people just give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't give much to work off of.
When I sense the situation is awkward or the person isn't conversing much (like the above "yes" and "no" answers), then I talk about how awkward the situation is. Tell something like "This is upsetting. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to say. Do you feel awkward too?"
Generally you can get a little discussion going on that topic and relieve a lot of stress just by admitting that you feel awkward and don't know what to say. Then go onto a question like "Ok, let's look at what we can talk about. What are your interests? Do you have any pastime activities?"
Another questioning approach is to pay attention to what a person puts their concentration on and talk about or ask questions about that. So, for example, if you are in a cafe and the person you are dating isn't speaking much, just reading the menu, you might say "Kind of an exciting menu. What appears good to you?" That might spark a conversation about food items or restaurants and menus, etc.
This technique is also good for meeting strangers. If you are in a supermarket next to some one beautiful who is looking at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are interested in the lamb chops. Do you know an excellent way to prepare them, I've always wanted to try them, but actually don't know how to cook them."
Remember also that you are not necessarily going to connect with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and look for a decent conversation going and it doesn't happen then this is possibly not the best person for you.
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